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Nice! I look forward to seeing your crappy photos, as a certified lurker. Thanks for the tip about "following"! My automatic finger reflex is checking my email, I annoy myself with doing it at all hours!

I have the New Yorker app on my phone and that's my go-to "I'm bored for a few min on the bus" app. But they only have so many stories, and I wait for the magazine to read the ones in print, which keeps it from feeling like a bottomless pit of news. The New Yorker isn't trying to report on everything that happens every day; that pace is too much for me; I prefer the deep dive. I feel informed, but not overwhelmed. And yeah sometimes I learn about something through a face-to-face interaction of "Oh didn't you hear about [event]?" and I'm ok with that. Anyway, just to say, if you're ready for news again I recommend picking one source, possibly weekly instead of daily (maybe the local paper on Sundays?) to keep it manageable. At least, that's how I've found balance!

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My new news source (which was my old news source, I just stopped reading it) is Morning Brew, it's an email roundup of top stories, it's quite charming and makes the news a little easier to swallow: morningbrew.com/daily/r/?kid=81748f30

I've also always been a fan of Up First, since it's the 10-minute version of NPR. For deep dives I looove The Atlantics, though those are only loosely "news."

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I loved reading your saga with social media and related to SO MANY of these things. I'm definitely trying to have fun, but for me the biggest thing I struggle with is comparing myself to others which isn't even fair. I want to know how I'm doing and social media does not provide a report card so that's the easiest and least accurate next worst thing. It's so inaccurate especially since social media is a fickle thing and can punish behaviors that were just rewarded the day before. It was nice reading this and being reminded again that I'm not the only one who has a love/hate relationship with this whole thing.

PS I use an app called ScreenZen that has helped me reduce my time on most social media platforms. It makes you wait a set amount of time before you can open it, then lets you only use it for a certain time; it's been surprisingly helpful!

PPS I hope you feel better soon!!!

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Thank you! And soooo true on the comparing to others. ScreenZen looks amazing, I have already installed it. I love the extra step before letting you open the app, that is just what I need to not go on autopilot.

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